I Like It Rough!

Don't we all like it rough sometimes, girls? Yep, we do. Why? Some of us just love the drama more than the boy...the man...who ever...I have a girlfriend struggling with this. We like it rough in all kinds of ways. Makes life interesting and not so boring. Gets us out of our heads and into our bodies or vice versa. The feminine loves the dance of being in life and experiencing it even if it is rough at times. But we create it. No one to blame but our own choices.

And then there is the "fun" kinda rough...you know what I mean. Can't play that game with just anyone. That game has to be played with a man you can trust - really trust. Hard to find a guy like that. Most men are just players. You can never trust a player. They will tell you what you want to hear just to play the game. They are out for themselves to get that next sexual high and release. You are just the tool they use to get there. Girls, you aren't tools...don't play that kinda game with a player. You will always lose.

However, if you do find that special man you can really trust, then why not! Experience all you can when you have that kind of connection with a guy. The high you can get from that connection is so worth it. Takes your experiences to a more profound, may I say, spiritual level. Yes, that's right - spiritual level. The sexual connection is the way to experience "god" when the bond is pure and based on love and complete trust. Nothing else like it. Most people are still asleep and haven't realized that the most powerful way to connect with the sacred is through the use of sexual energy. You can even transcend the physical plane during an intense sexual experience. There is a lot written out there about this. This is nothing new or new age. Egyptian culture understood this thousands of years ago. All great civilizations knew this. There were actual temples of worship headed by Priestesses who knew the spiritual art of using Kundalini energy to connect with Spirit through sacred sexual acts.

Our world has been perverted with lies about sex being evil and bad and wrong. Yes, there are instances where the use of this power is abusive...when it is used for selfish reasons where deceit and no love is involved in the union...like sex with a "player" who just wants one thing. This is damaging to you and to him on an energetic and soul level. The sexual act is always sacred, but so many have been made to believe it is not. It is sacred and should be treated as such. To truly receive the spiritual benefits that sexual union has to offer, one must share this act within a loving and trusting union of commitment to one's lover and partner. This act cannot be shared with several sexual partners at a time...it dissipates the energy between everyone and no one benefits. The trust is lost when such an act is spread to several partners. This is why, I believe, most religions state that it is a "sin" to have sex with someone outside of marriage. What they are saying is that this is a sacred act which should be shared with one special soul at a time, not used for selfish purposes...physical highs and releases...at the expense of the other sexual partner.

Men tend to disrespect the sex act more than women. Women need that emotional connection. Men don't. They just need a willing woman. What men don't realize is that they are hurting themselves on a spirit/soul level...and hurting every woman at the same time. One selfish sexual act harms the whole of humanity. Its sounds harsh but true. All choices have a consequence that effects the whole because we are all energetically connected..connected to our Creator. When a man disrespects a woman sexually by deceit...making her believe she means something to him when she really doesn't, he is hurting the feminine goddess that connects all of life. One act feeds more evil acts...this is why pornography, child sexual abuse, sex slavery, and so forth is so rampant. There is no difference energetically between a man who rapes and a man who deceitfully uses a woman for sex. It is all the same and causes just as much damage spiritually to our world.

Women need to stand in their power and not allow this abuse. We are just as much to blame, girls, when we allow ourselves to be used. The sexual act is sacred and we as women are the bearers of this truth. We need to respect our sacred sexual power and only share it with a truly deserving man we can trust who has a loving and open heart. In this way, we are giving light to humanity through each sacred act of sex. The energy that is created, if intentioned well, can heal the world!

If you are in a loving and committed spiritual relationship with someone, use it for the betterment of humanity. Set clear intentions for the love you create with your partner and be of those who send healing energy out to an ailing world.

And if you like it sacredly rough, you go girl!

Ha!

The naked truth girl!