Well...my sista was having relationship issues...had to be there for her. It's hard when you love someone but they are not a good match for you. You can love someone deeply but not be compatible life partners. Yes, that is the naked truth...and a painful one.
Took her out with a male friend of mine to talk some sense into her, cheer her up, and give her some new eye candy to browse at this sports bar. She wasn't in the mood. She still loves her boyfriend.
This bonding through sex before you get to know someone....NOT A GOOD IDEA!!!!
It takes time to know someone. You may never compeletly know someone but at least explore their character and whether they have addictions and other mental health issues you may not want to deal with.
Once that bond is made, it is hard to break loose of it. You know what I am talking about girls!
With men, they don't bond like us. Most men can get over a woman by finding another woman. Quick and fast - done! I know. Not fair! We women really open our hearts to a man when we decide to have a sexual relationship. That requires that we trust the man. To trust a man is asking a lot. So if you are at that stage and then find out that you are not a match...doesn't feel good...it hurts...a lot!
So...the naked truth is...don't get naked with a man until you really know the guy!
And then think whether you still want to get naked. If he is the real deal, it might be best to
save yourself for that wedding night. What a bond you will experience then!!!!
Yeah, it sounds old fashion...but actually it is quite trendy and consciously aware!
That's the naked truth!
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