The Man Craving...

I hate it when that happens!  You know girls...you can just taste him.  You are so hungry for a guy...any guy...well, almost.  For me, it's like this craving to just kiss and kiss and eat him up!  Lol!  It does feel like a food craving.  You want to be filled.  Well, that's the feminine sexual essence for you.  She needs to be filled and fed with life and love and sensuality and a man's depth and his...(edit).

Very symbolic.

Everything about a woman and a man's body is symbolic of how we exist in the world.  A man is "out there" and experiences the world from the outside.  A woman is internal in her nature and experiences the world from within.  The world enters her.  For a man, he must enter the world.  All of nature is feminine.  A guy who craves being out in nature all the time or golfing is really craving that feminine energy in his life.  Women who are very directional and business oriented all the time are using their work as a male sexual substitute. We use sexual substitutes all the time.  Women use food as a sexual substitute to be filled.  Our pets and our children can become our sexual substitutes...not in a perverted way...but as a way to fill that deepest part of our yearning for love from a depth that only someone of the opposite sexual polarity can give you.

Careful with sexual substitutes.  They drain your sexual energy so that you have none to give when the right man or woman comes along.  For example, a man can use attractive "female friends" as a sexual substitute when he is in between relationships or not wanting a committed relationship.  He will just drain away that sexual energy so that you have none left for a guy who really does want what you want.  We women unknowingly do this to ourselves when we spend lots of time with male friends.

The masculine cannot live without our energy.  They crave us way more than we crave them.  We crave a man's depth and direction.  We want a man who is not afraid of our ocean of emotion.  We want a man that can shift our bad mood with humor and deep love...passionate love.  We hate it when we are in a bad mood and the man runs and escapes into his man cave, tinkers in the garage or goes and plays golf or some other avoidance mechanism!  WE HATE THAT!  Why?  Because he is afraid of our goddess power.  In our hearts and minds he is being a wimp!  And that angers the goddess within us.  We need a man who will stand up to our emotions and power and not wimp out on us.  We can't trust a man who runs.  When we can intimidate a man with our moods we cease to trust him.  He is not a strong man in our eyes.  The feminine needs the strong masculine to keep her contained.  She is the ocean.  He is the boat on the ocean.  She can swallow him whole in a second! 

That's why, girls, we just lose it for confident and cocky types.  Those guys aren't afraid of us.  If they are, they don't show it.  A good man, though, is confident around a strong woman because he respects her power and knows how to handle her moods with confidence   We CRAVE that confidence in a man!  Men like that... love like that and we crave that kind of loving...don't we girls?  Confident lovers are a very sexy turn on for the feminine goddess.  Yum!

And that's the naked truth!